so I am in the lounge at JFK and someone is talking REALLY LOUD AND IT CARRIES THROUGH OUT THE LOUNGE.
Do you think it is rude that I went over to her and her friends (including men) and said, very politely, I don't know if you know this, but your voice carries in the room - it recoshays off the bar back wall.
Someone with her said, "how rude." And I wheeled around and said, "I didn't mean it rude, I simply asked her to take it down a notch." And she seemed cool with it.
If we don't ask how will people know it bugs us?