The Harvard Grads over at the Boston Globe may be smart as hell, but they might want to outsource their web programing. They have a reasonably nice State by State Gay Marriage Rights graphic (LINK), but when you select "Nationwide" instead of "State by State", it gives you the status on all 101 states plus DC.
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Wow, that is a lot of states. I would say, roughly double the number of actual states we have. Apparently, 75 of the 50 statues allow gay marriage.
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