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#BlackLivesMatter explained in a sign |
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This is what I thought #BlackLivesMatter was about. Making the country safe and equal for the people of color who are now treated unfairly - even killed - and no one seems to care.
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But that isn't it. Like the "Occupy Wall Street" movement before it, the #BlackLivesMatter movement is much more amorphous and leaderless. The demands, particular on allies, seems incoherent. There is honest anger, hell - justifiable rage, on the side of the #BlackLivesMatter movement, and I get that. How can I help? Any and all responses seems to be meet with dismissal of allies as insincere.
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From my experience (which I KNOW is not the same as the experiences of #BlackLivesMatter) let me make an imperfect analogy. I was at the age of anger and hope (mid-20s) when AIDS started killing thousands and thousands of people - hundreds of them friends and acquaintances. And we gay men were furious at a system that legally and morally cast us out and treated us differently. A political system that legally ostracized us and political leaders and religious leaders that called for us to be put away in camps.
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Out of that hypocrisy, movements were grown. Some were support systems within major cities. Allies were found with lesbians (and in the old days before LBGTBQ getting lesbians and gay men together was thought almost impossible), within the medical community, and with some politicians. Act Up, Code Pink and groups like them were, like some #BlackLivesMatter activists, focused on disruption and visibility.
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But we did have an end-game. We wanted money for research, legal protection as human beings and to lessen hatred against gays. And we worked towards that.
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I would love to work towards the results #BlackLivesMatter want, but in many many cases their anger is articulated, but not their desired results. And, as they lash out against allies and potential allies, horrible things still happen in the country.
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I watched Larry Wilmore having a discussion with two of the protesters who spoke with Hillary Clinton. I watched to try to understand what I could do to help. I watched it twice. But there was no call to action or solution. Only anger and dissatisfaction that allies aren't doing enough now.
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